<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7934713717290498063</id><updated>2012-02-16T12:43:31.840+06:00</updated><category term='Software'/><category term='Thought Product'/><title type='text'>Zaman On Software ----(ZoS)</title><subtitle type='html'>A personal collections and recollections on Software and its related people, technology and management issues. Trying to jot down many of my notes that I have taken, admired, (and possibly partially learned) over the last 20 years or so !</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Rainbow Dreamer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>12</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7934713717290498063.post-7195421515156669304</id><published>2009-04-30T14:31:00.001+06:00</published><updated>2009-04-30T14:35:49.089+06:00</updated><title type='text'>The Art of Empowerment</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Attitudinal Change – The Art of Empowerment&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;(Discovering and living what is personally meaningful)&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Transformation = Having new eyes; a shift in perspective; a breakthrough insight that generates new possibilities and actions; the manifesting of new reality&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Two ways to change behavior: Which option is easier? Which option is more sustainable?&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ol style="margin-top: 0in;" start="1" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Change one’s belief for a      change in behavior&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Change one’s behavior and      a change in belief follows&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;u&gt;Attitudinal Change Principles and Enablers&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;In supporting ourselves and in facilitating others ….&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Assume people have      inherent wisdom and creative intelligence.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;A certain degree of      self-awareness capacity is necessary.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Self-responsibility is a      pre-requisite to empowerment.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Choice needs to be      available. Ensure this is a voluntary process – by invitation (vs force).&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Expanding our      consciousness is a commitment to growth.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Cultivating a neutral,      observer self is helpful to explore who we are.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Mindfulness helps to      create the space for curiosity.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Start from a place of      compassion vs judgment. Emotional safety is a pre-requisite to opening up.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Risk-taking is about being      radically honest with self. Courage is needed to let go of the known. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Check out our assumptions.      What self-talk or messages do we give ourselves?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Know that our beliefs are      NOT who we really are.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Develop a need or a sense      of urgency. A personal vision of what you want is more compelling.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;A problem-centered      approach is not the most motivating place to start (what’s wrong with me?)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;….. and more … to follow      ..;-)…&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7934713717290498063-7195421515156669304?l=zaman-on-software.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/feeds/7195421515156669304/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7934713717290498063&amp;postID=7195421515156669304' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/7195421515156669304'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/7195421515156669304'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/2009/04/art-of-empowerment.html' title='The Art of Empowerment'/><author><name>Rainbow Dreamer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7934713717290498063.post-3013614177251477453</id><published>2009-04-26T01:29:00.006+06:00</published><updated>2009-04-26T02:40:43.128+06:00</updated><title type='text'>EQ::Relationship-Building Skills</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Empathy in Understanding Others; Service Orientation; Communication; Team-Building; Conflict Management&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Non-Violent Communication (NVC): A Language of Compassion&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Developed by Dr. Marshall Rosenburg&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;NVC is a way of speaking and listening that facilitates the flow of communication needed to exchange information and resolve differences peacefully. It helps us identify our shared values and needs, encourages us to use language that increases goodwill and avoid language that contributes to low self-esteem and resentment.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;NVC is based on the premise that:&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Our      motivation is honesty and compassion rather than fear, guilt, blame or      shame.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;The      key is personal responsibility for our choices and relationship-building.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;People      are all simply trying to get our needs met. Know how to do so without      aggression.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;People      naturally enjoy contributing to the well-being of others when they can do      so willingly.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;This powerful, simple, yet not so easy process is about:&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Observing      free of evaluating &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Expressing      feelings free of judgment&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Sharing      needs free of strategy&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Making      requests free of demands&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;u&gt;Observing Free of Evaluating&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;“The highest form of human intelligence is to observe without evaluating”. --- J. Krishnamurti&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;When      we observe with evaluating, we decrease the likelihood that others will      hear our intended message. Instead, they are apt to hear criticism and      thus resist.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;That      does not mean we refrain from evaluating, but rather that we maintain a      separation between our observations and evaluations.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Develop      a “third eye” (neutral observer) in being aware of what labels we place on      behaviors. This allows us the space to separate from our conditioning to a      new way of thinking.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Replace      the limiting words “never”, “always”, “whenever” etc. since human beings      evolve and contexts change. Language is a process, not about static      generalizations.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;u&gt;Expressing Feelings Free of Judgment&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;“Sharing our vulnerability can help resolve conflict.”&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;People      are transport. Expressing our feelings allows for authenticity.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;There      is a heavy cost to repressed feelings. Research shows that depression is      often repressed anger.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Many      people express feelings by saying; “good, bad, mad” – 2 out of 3 are not      feelings!&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Some feelings,      when needs are being met: (affectionate, confident, engaged, inspired,      excited, exhilarated, grateful, hopeful, joyful, peaceful, refreshed)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Some      feelings, when needs are not being met: (afraid, annoyed, angry, aversion,      confused, disconnected, disquiet, embarrassed, fatigue, pain, sad, tense,      vulnerable, yearning)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Distinguish      between what we feel and what we think.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;What      others do may be the stimulus of our feelings, but not the cause. We are      responsible for our feelings. Because we have choice, no one can “make” us      feel a certain way.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;There      are four options to receiving negative messages: (1) blaming ourselves,      (2) blaming others, (3) sensing our own feelings and needs, (4) sensing      others’ feelings and needs.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Mindfulness      – being present in the moment – is an effective way of tuning into the body,      identifying our emotions, gaining perspective and harnessing our wisdom.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;u&gt;Sharing Needs Free of Strategy&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;“When we hear other people’s feelings and needs, we recognize our common humanity.”&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Judgments      of others are alienated expressions ofour own unmet needs.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;If we      don’t value our needs, others may not either.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Common      Needs include:&lt;/li&gt;&lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="circle"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Play       (joy, humor) &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Connection       (acceptance, affection, appreciation, belonging, cooperation, closeness,       community, empathy, love, respect, safety, security, to know and be known,       to understand and be understood, support, trust, warmth, consideration,       nurturing, inclusion, intimacy, companionship, to see and be seen)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Physical       Well-Being (air, food, movement, rest, touch, water, sexual expression,       shelter)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Honesty       (authenticity, integrity, presence)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Peace       (beauty, equality, ease, harmony, inspiration, order, communion)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Meaning       (awareness, celebration, clarity, contribution, creativity, discovery,       effectiveness, growth, purpose, mourning, stimulation, participation,       hope, to matter, understanding, consciousness, challenge)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Autonomy       (choice, freedom, independence, space, spontaneity)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;u&gt;Making Requests Free of Demands&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;“The clearer we are about what we want, the more likely it is that we’ll get it.”&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Make      requests in clear, positive, concrete action language. &lt;span style="" lang="FR"&gt;Vague languages contribue to confusion.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;If      requests are unaccompanied by our feelings and needs, it may come across      like a demand.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;People      tend to be either rebel or submit to demands. Neither is effective      relationship-building.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;To      make sure the message we sent is the message that’s received, ask the listener      to reflect it back.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;“Conflict is natural; neither positive or negative. It just is. It is a change in energy flow. The question is not if you have conflicts in your life but what you do with it makes a difference. Dealing with conflict effectively is rarely about who is right or looking good. It is about acknowledging and appreciating differences.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;Perhaps all so-called bad behavior is in essence a cry for love.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;In the end, all people want the same thing: to be seen, heard and loved.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;i style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7934713717290498063-3013614177251477453?l=zaman-on-software.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/feeds/3013614177251477453/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7934713717290498063&amp;postID=3013614177251477453' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/3013614177251477453'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/3013614177251477453'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/2009/04/eqrelationship-building-skills.html' title='EQ::Relationship-Building Skills'/><author><name>Rainbow Dreamer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7934713717290498063.post-7345558377785768157</id><published>2009-04-24T22:47:00.021+06:00</published><updated>2009-04-26T00:34:11.441+06:00</updated><title type='text'>EQ::Adaptability (Very Important for SW Developers)</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"Many people believe that having a successful relationship (work or otherwise) mostly depends on finding the right person and doing the right things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;We often don't see how we relate to another inevitably follows from how we relate to ourselves.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Our outer relationships are but an extension of our inner life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;We can only be as open and present with another as we are with ourselves."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;---- John Welwood&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;....From Elizabeth Soltis .. again ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Emotions and Thoughts are interconnected ... Understanding this relationship supports our EQ development. Using a combination approach of consciously exploring our emotional and cognitive habits enables us to to "rewire" for enhanced performance .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;How People Tend to Think&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As people grow, we develop general rules about the world and ourselves. In our attempts to understand the world and our place within it, we tend to use the process of induction -- the building of general rules from an accumulation of specific examples. Yet, humans can be poor logicians. We do not have all the information we need. From our personal experiences, we have to piece together the general rules of how it operates.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We have also been conditioned to interpret and respond to the world in fairly predictable ways by our primary caregivers. Through their influences, we have developed certain filters and lenses through which we view the world. We tend to forget these lenses exist and sometimes cause us to have some distorted ways of thinking and understanding the world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The other challenge lies in the fact sometimes we get too much information to deal with. Humans are not passive recipients of sensory data from the world around them. We actively process and interpret information. Yet our five senses are capable of taking in much more information than our brains are able to process at one time. Thus we need to simplify the information streaming in through our senses before we can use it. We therefore cut corners and take shortcuts in our thinking to better handle the sensory load.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The biggest challenge is that people do not realize that we are doing this and assume that we are responding to a direct readout of that world, one that is comprehensive and accurate. Many people do not realize that they are engaging in an "interpretation" process. Our perceptions may indeed be faulty.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Understanding How We Can Think in &lt;st1:street st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:address st="on"&gt;Unbalanced Ways&lt;/st1:address&gt;&lt;/st1:street&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As humans, we make fairly predictable mistakes in our thinking processes. There are basically two ways that we seek to interpret the world: &lt;i&gt;causal &lt;/i&gt;inferences, answering the "why" questions; and &lt;i&gt;implication &lt;/i&gt;inferences, answering the "what next" questions. We need to learn how to answer these questions internally in a balanced way. Unfortunately, many of us tend to limit ourselves by thinking in terms of:&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ul type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Everything"      versus "Nothing"&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Always" versus      "Never"&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Me" versus      "Not Me"&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Some people have a dominant style of this extreme thinking; while others shift back and forth between extremes. It is possible, however, to develop a balanced way of thinking and behaving by being self-aware.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Recognizing and Avoiding Thinking Traps&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Humans experience common "thinking traps" as they try to make sense of the world. These limiting ways of thinking make it challenging for us to act in adaptive ways.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ol start="1" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;b&gt;Jumping to Conclusions - &lt;/b&gt;making      assumptions without relevant data... &lt;/li&gt;&lt;ol start="1" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Practice slowing down.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Ask yourself: What       evidence do I have to support my conclusion on. Am I certain or am I       guessing?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Use the Factual “White       Hat” thinking from Dr. Edward Debono’s “Six Thinking Hat” framework to       look for “concrete data”!&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ol start="2" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;b&gt;Tunnel Vision – &lt;/b&gt;sampling      and registering only select scenes and details from the environment... &lt;/li&gt;&lt;ol start="1" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Practice refocusing       yourself and broadening your perspective.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Ask yourself: What is       a fair assessment of the entire situation? What is the big picture? How       important is this one aspect to the big picture?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Use the Factual “White       Hat” thinking from Dr. Edward Debono’s “Six Thinking Hat” framework to       look for “all relevant facts”; and also use the “Green Hat” brainstorming       technique to explore innovative options for the big picture!&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Use the “Systems       Thinking” for a balanced view with big picture perspective.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ol start="3" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;b&gt;Magnifying and Minimizing      – &lt;/b&gt;overvaluing and undervaluing events in your life... &lt;/li&gt;&lt;ol start="1" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Practice striving for       balance.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Ask yourself: Were       there any good things that happened? Did I do anything well?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Alternatively, if you       tend to dismiss the negative, ask yourself: Am I overlooking any       problems? Were there any negative elements that I am dismissing the importance       of?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Use the Factual “White       Hat” thinking from Dr. Edward Debono’s “Six Thinking Hat” framework to       look for “all relevant facts”; and also use both the “Yellow Hat” and       “Black Hat” thinking for positive values and negative concerns       respectively!&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ol start="4" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;b&gt;Personalizing – &lt;/b&gt;the      tendency to attribute problems to one’s own doing; only seeing the      internal causes of a problem and systematically ignoring the external      causes... &lt;/li&gt;&lt;ol start="1" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Practice looking       outward.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Ask yourself: Did       anyone or anything else contribute to this situation? How much of the       problem is really due to me and how much is due to others?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Use the Factual “White       Hat” thinking from Dr. Edward Debono’s “Six Thinking Hat” framework to       look for external causes with “concrete facts”; and also use both the “Red       Hat” and “Green Hat” thinking for emotions without logic and creative       ideas respectively!&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ol start="5" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;b&gt;Externalizing – &lt;/b&gt;the      tendency to blame all problems on external causes... &lt;/li&gt;&lt;ol start="1" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Practice holding       yourself accountable. &lt;i style=""&gt;(This       introspection habit to internalize causes is useful for continuous       self-development.)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Ask yourself: What did       I do to contribute to this problem? How much of the problem is due to others       and how much is due to me?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Use the Factual “White       Hat” thinking from Dr. Edward Debono’s “Six Thinking Hat” framework to       look for internal causes with “concrete facts”; and also use both the       “Red Hat” and “Green Hat” thinking for emotions without logic and       creative ideas respectively!&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ol start="6" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;b&gt;Over-Generalizing – &lt;/b&gt;when      you make “always” and “everything” explanations about things... &lt;/li&gt;&lt;ol start="1" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Practice looking more       closely at the behavior involved. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Ask yourself: Is there       a narrower explanation than the one I’ve assumed to be true? Is there a       specific behavior that explains the situation? Is it logical to indict my       or anyone’s character (worth as human) based on this specific event?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Use the Factual “White       Hat” thinking from Dr. Edward Debono’s “Six Thinking Hat” framework to       look for specific facts with “concrete focus”; and also use the “Green       Hat” thinking for creative ideas!&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ol start="7" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;b&gt;Mind Reading – &lt;/b&gt;when      you believe you know what others are thinking and act accordingly. Or you      expect others to know what you are thinking... &lt;/li&gt;&lt;ol start="1" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Practice speaking up       and asking questions of others. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;First ask yourself: Did       I make my beliefs or feelings known directly and clearly? Did I convey       all of the pertinent information? Am I expecting the other person to work       hard at figuring out my needs or goals?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Use the Factual “White       Hat” thinking from Dr. Edward Debono’s “Six Thinking Hat” framework to share       the facts with your TEAM; and also use the “Red Hat” thinking for expressing       TEAM members’ emotions!&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;ol start="8" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;&lt;b&gt;Emotional Reasoning – &lt;/b&gt;when      you draw conclusions about the world based on your emotional state... &lt;/li&gt;&lt;ol start="1" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Practice separating       your feelings from the facts. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Ask yourself: Have       there been times when my feelings didn’t accurately reflect the facts of       a situation? What questions must I ask to know the facts?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Use the Factual “White       Hat” thinking from Dr. Edward Debono’s “Six Thinking Hat” framework to learn       the “neutral facts” with “journalistic objectivity”; and also use the       “Red Hat” thinking for articulating your emotions! Then separate the       facts from emotions.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7934713717290498063-7345558377785768157?l=zaman-on-software.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/feeds/7345558377785768157/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7934713717290498063&amp;postID=7345558377785768157' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/7345558377785768157'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/7345558377785768157'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/2009/04/eqadaptability-very-important-for-sw.html' title='EQ::Adaptability (Very Important for SW Developers)'/><author><name>Rainbow Dreamer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7934713717290498063.post-7122685395447079552</id><published>2009-04-08T12:40:00.002+06:00</published><updated>2009-04-08T12:43:15.475+06:00</updated><title type='text'>Soft Skills for successful SW Engineering</title><content type='html'>Software engineering is a multi-disciplinary profession which requires a wide range of technical and non-technical skills. Most software engineers – programmers, systems analysts, computer scientists – have mastered the former, but often not the latter. Learn the development of “soft skills,” non-technical skills such as project management; interpersonal communication – oral and written; organizational development and leadership; understanding business, marketing, and sales requirements/expectations; building effective, productive relationships with internal and external stakeholders; developing effective negotiation skills; and promoting and maintaining a “healthy,” productive work environment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just took the above from the following URL: :-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://extension.ucsd.edu/studyarea/index.cfm?vAction=singleCourse&amp;amp;vCourse=CSE-40980"&gt;http://extension.ucsd.edu/studyarea/index.cfm?vAction=singleCourse&amp;amp;vCourse=CSE-40980&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7934713717290498063-7122685395447079552?l=zaman-on-software.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/feeds/7122685395447079552/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7934713717290498063&amp;postID=7122685395447079552' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/7122685395447079552'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/7122685395447079552'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/2009/04/soft-skills-for-successful-sw.html' title='Soft Skills for successful SW Engineering'/><author><name>Rainbow Dreamer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7934713717290498063.post-7339052778498999291</id><published>2008-11-04T16:35:00.017+06:00</published><updated>2009-04-08T15:14:25.325+06:00</updated><title type='text'>Emotional Intelligence in SW Dev ---- 1</title><content type='html'>Yes, I must write on this topic now ... I have been planning to write on it for the last few days ... Since today I gave this blog url to Elli of JOBS-ICT, who also trains Soft Skills for IT Professionals .. now I have to write more on Soft Skills ... ;-) ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Quotes from the notes of Ms. Elizabeth Soltis,  Learning Resource Center, UNDP, New York &lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Emotional Intelligence is the intelligent use of emotions. It is about how people handle themselves and their relationships. It involves a set of competencies (skills, knowledge, behaviour) that enables someone to be aware of and able to manage self and others in a life-affirming way. Personal responsibility is the key in knowing that people have ownership of their emotions in making powerful choices.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The focus of &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;"Emotional Literacy" &lt;/span&gt;is on regaining the natural ability to feel and use emotions wisely. This is the practice of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"Human Development" &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;from inside out !!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Personal Competencies&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Self-Awareness&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Emotional Awareness:&lt;/b&gt; recognizing and validating our emotions and their effects&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Accurate Self-Assessment:&lt;/b&gt; knowing our strengths and limits&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Self-Confidence: having a strong sense of self-worth and capabilities&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Self-Management&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Self-Control:&lt;/b&gt; managing emotions and expressing feelings appropriately&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Trustworthiness:&lt;/b&gt; maintaining standards of honesty and integrity&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Conscientiousness:&lt;/b&gt; taking responsibility for personal performance&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Adapatability:&lt;/b&gt; thinking in constructive, balanced ways to deal with life's changes&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Innovation:&lt;/b&gt; being comfortable with new ideas, approaches and information&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Motivation&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Achievement Drive:&lt;/b&gt; striving to improve or meet a standard of excellence&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Commitment:&lt;/b&gt; aligning with the goals of the group or organization&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Initiative:&lt;/b&gt; readiness to act on opportunities&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Optimism:&lt;/b&gt; persistence in pursuing goals despite obstacles and set-backs&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Relationship Competencies&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Empathy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Understanding Others:&lt;/b&gt; sensing other's feelings and perspectives&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Developing Others:&lt;/b&gt; supporting other's developmental needs and their abilities&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Service Orientation:&lt;/b&gt; anticipating, recognizing and meeting client needs&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Leveraging Diversity:&lt;/b&gt; creating opportunities by using different people talents and perspectives&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Political Awareness:&lt;/b&gt; reading a group's emotional currents and power relationships&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Social Skills&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Influence:&lt;/b&gt; using effective strategies for persuasion&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Communication:&lt;/b&gt; listening openly and sending clear messages&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Conflict Management:&lt;/b&gt; negotiating needs and resolving disagreements&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Leadership:&lt;/b&gt; inspiring and guiding individuals and groups&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Change Catalyst:&lt;/b&gt; initiating and managing change&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Building Bonds:&lt;/b&gt; nurturing relationships effectively&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Collaboration:&lt;/b&gt; cooperatively working with others toward shared goals&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Team Capabilities:&lt;/b&gt; creating group synergy while working on projects&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Enhancing Our EQ Capacity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;u&gt; "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us." &lt;/u&gt; &lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Research shows that EQ skills are more important than IQ in determining personal effectiveness and success -- at work and beyond. This dimension of one's performance is critical to achieving any organizational goals. Daniel Goleman, the pioneer of EQ theory, states that EQ competencies are NOT innate talents, but rather learned capabilities that can be developed over time to achieve outstanding performance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Personal Competencies: Emotional Awareness; Self-Assessment, Self-Confidence, Adaptability&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;Common Myths about Emotions&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt; Emotions are stronger than me. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Others control my emotions.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;I can't help my emotions. My emotions control me.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;I have no control how I express my emotions.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;All emotions must be expressed.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;It is better to get out of my anger by venting. This relieves me of my upset.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Emotions are right/wrong/good/bad.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;I'm supposed to feel in a certain way in certain situations.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Difficult feelings are bad and should be avoided. Emotions are my enemy.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;It is inappropriate to express my emotions at work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Consider....&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt; Emotions are our internal compass that points us towards actions which address our needs. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;They serve as our barometer in letting us know how we are doing.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;With this vital information, we are able to set healthy boundaries for ourselves.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Emotions help us to relate to others. They can also be alarms, motivating us to take action.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Emotions are fundamentally adaptive, acting as shepherds guiding us to safety and well-being.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Five Step Process in Managing Emotions Effectively : (Do NOT Skip Any Step !)&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;Tune-In and Acknowledge&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Breathe and Allow&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Recognize and Identify&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Validate and Empathize&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Discern and Express&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Common EQ Challenges / Opportunities&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;Self-Responsibility&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Self-Esteem&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Trust&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Positive Attitude&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Dealing with Change&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Gentleness with self and others&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Patience&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Balance in Life&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Power / Control Issues&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Personal Commitment&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Discipline&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Letting go and forgiveness&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7934713717290498063-7339052778498999291?l=zaman-on-software.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/feeds/7339052778498999291/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7934713717290498063&amp;postID=7339052778498999291' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/7339052778498999291'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/7339052778498999291'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/2008/11/emotional-intelligence-in-sw-dev-1.html' title='Emotional Intelligence in SW Dev ---- 1'/><author><name>Rainbow Dreamer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7934713717290498063.post-4771018589410724220</id><published>2008-10-27T19:09:00.002+06:00</published><updated>2008-10-27T19:13:00.269+06:00</updated><title type='text'>Resume Writing Skill</title><content type='html'>&lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Fresh Software / CSE Graduates in Bangladesh are usually "pretty weak" in Good &amp;amp; Focused resume Writing ... Here is a Great Resource on the Web for ALL...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Quote from the Linked Site : &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;""" The good news is that, with a little extra effort, you can create a resume that makes you stand out as a superior candidate for a job you are seeking. Not one resume in a hundred follows the principles that stir the interest of prospective employers. So, even if you face fierce competition, with a well written resume you should be invited to interview more often than many people more qualified than you.&lt;/p&gt;             &lt;p&gt;The bad news is that your present resume is probably much more inadequate than you now realize. You will have to learn how to think and write in a style that will be completely new to you. ..."""&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Learn More in the following URL ....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.rockportinstitute.com/resumes.html"&gt;http://www.rockportinstitute.com/resumes.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7934713717290498063-4771018589410724220?l=zaman-on-software.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/feeds/4771018589410724220/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7934713717290498063&amp;postID=4771018589410724220' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/4771018589410724220'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/4771018589410724220'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/2008/10/resume-writing-skill.html' title='Resume Writing Skill'/><author><name>Rainbow Dreamer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7934713717290498063.post-2666492340250929047</id><published>2008-10-27T19:05:00.001+06:00</published><updated>2008-10-27T19:08:28.481+06:00</updated><title type='text'>My generic (&amp; informal) Mentoring Strategies</title><content type='html'>&lt;b&gt;4 Generic Key Strategies that I usually try to implement while mentoring Fresh CSE Graduates....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A. Train to "Communicate" &lt;/b&gt; ("Write, Write, Write ! First Learn to communicate with your own self!")&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;B. Train to "Think Quality" &lt;/b&gt; ("Plan, Do, Check, Act ! Do Self-Planning besides the Project or Organizational Plans!")&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;C. Train to "Work under Pressure" &lt;/b&gt; ("Learn to work under "chaos" and "pressure" with "partial exposure" to real life Projects!")&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;D. Train to "Learn TDD in a selected Language / Technology" &lt;/b&gt; ("Learn to excel in design and development in a selected Language Technology with a Scientific Mindset using Test Driven Development Approach!")&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7934713717290498063-2666492340250929047?l=zaman-on-software.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/feeds/2666492340250929047/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7934713717290498063&amp;postID=2666492340250929047' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/2666492340250929047'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/2666492340250929047'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/2008/10/my-generic-informal-mentoring.html' title='My generic (&amp; informal) Mentoring Strategies'/><author><name>Rainbow Dreamer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7934713717290498063.post-2967978562826982531</id><published>2008-10-27T16:26:00.000+06:00</published><updated>2008-10-27T17:26:49.002+06:00</updated><title type='text'>Typical "Weak Spots" of SW Developers</title><content type='html'>I started my programming career with the "notion" that GUI is an "auxiliary" and "secondary" thing in any great software product. My mentor and boss was pretty "bad" in GUI and in the Look &amp;amp; Feel aspects :-(... And I also could successfully copy this weakness from him (I wish it implied that I copied all his great strengths ;-)..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With the legacy of a &lt;b&gt;"Great Mentoring Tradition"&lt;/b&gt; most of my "disciples" also "inherited" that "Great Weakness" :-(... I am also surprised to see that most of our Computer Science and Engineering students also painfully lack this "User Interaction" Focus ! I often hear this statement: "I am now doing boring Forms or Reports Design!" Yes, s/he has a point: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"since I am NOT a GUI designer, so I should not be doing this"&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But another stronger point is, You simply can NOT ignore the importance of GUI (Graphical User Interface) and its implications. You HAVE to train yourself to have the "eye" and "skills" for consistent GUI Design and Development. So even a &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"one pixel error" &lt;/span&gt;should not miss the eye of a skilled Software Developer. And I am very convinced (from my own early-career-mistakes) that it can be learned, and it is mostly a matter of &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;attitude&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;giving importance and priority&lt;/span&gt; like other &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;programming and software design skills&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have also observed that fresh developers are NOT well-oriented with practical SQL building skills for RDBMS (Relational Database Management Systems) and Database Table Designs. May be in the Universities / Colleges, the algorithm-focused Computer-Scientist Professors do not take a lot of interests in the &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"not-so-exciting-proven-relational-algebra thing"&lt;/span&gt;. But it is very important for almost all practical business applications.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Performance Issues also take a back seat for most fresh software developers. Surprisingly, many business applications developing software companies in Bangladesh also do not demand it from all its beginner developers. The usual notion is:  &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"Build something first real quick, and then we will see what we can do to improve performance later"&lt;/span&gt;. Not a bad thing to start with ! But in this process, often the needed "measurement mind-set" gets lost :-(... We can not &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;manage&lt;/span&gt; something, if we can not &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;measure&lt;/span&gt; that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have you &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"really tested"&lt;/span&gt; your code ?&lt;br /&gt;"&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;SURE.&lt;/span&gt; I ran it 10 times !" ---- This is the typical answer from most Software Developers !&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Can you &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"scientifically prove"&lt;/span&gt;  that your code works ?&lt;br /&gt;"&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;WHAT ??&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt; What do you mean?" ---- We might be up for a fight now :-(... The ego gets hurt here !&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Quite often the Software Testability Issues are NOT addressed properly by most Software Developers, Managers, and even Users ! In most other engineering and scientific professions, there is always the concern for &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"proving something scientifically with data and validations"&lt;/span&gt; ! Software development as a nascent profession is still largely free from this obligation ! But those days are quickly passing by !&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A World Class Software Development Professional MUST be able to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"scientifically prove his thoughts with real data and validations"&lt;/span&gt;. This may start with the UATCs (User Acceptance Test Cases / Criteria) and followed up by the STCs (Software / System Test Cases / Criteria), ITCs (Integration Test Cases), UTCs (Unit Test Cases). A Software Developer / Designer / Programmer must write thorough and useful Unit Test Cases to build the blocks for a thorough scientific scrutiny of the full software product.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In this constantly changing user and technology environments, a well-built Software Testing Scrutiny System (where everything can be programatically verified and validated) can act as great health checking, measuring and metering devices as found in other sound engineering disciplines. Test Driven Development (TDD) and Agile Methods are not just some fads or fashions of modern time. They are the needs of the current time, and should be used with the true spirit.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7934713717290498063-2967978562826982531?l=zaman-on-software.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/feeds/2967978562826982531/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7934713717290498063&amp;postID=2967978562826982531' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/2967978562826982531'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/2967978562826982531'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/2008/10/typical-weak-spots-of-sw-developers.html' title='Typical &quot;Weak Spots&quot; of SW Developers'/><author><name>Rainbow Dreamer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7934713717290498063.post-3885139725031072160</id><published>2008-10-27T13:14:00.000+06:00</published><updated>2008-10-27T13:48:26.475+06:00</updated><title type='text'>Soft Skills for Software Engineers -- 1</title><content type='html'>Soft Skills for Software Engineers are &lt;b&gt; VERY CRITICAL &lt;/b&gt; skills to produce quality software and grow up the career ladder !! In fact, these are always essential in ANY profession, per se. But since Software is more of "Thought Product" with all "soft-ness" so Soft Skills are more important in this profession than others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt; &lt;u&gt; Why learn soft skills ? &lt;/u&gt; &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt; Google Search Engine found 189,000 matches (on 2nd Sep, 2008)  for “Soft Skills for a Software Engineer” &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Employers often get biased towards “Attitude” rather than “Aptitude”&lt;br /&gt;SW Engg is essentially “SOFT” :-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt; &lt;u&gt; Soft Topics &lt;/u&gt; &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. TEAM Collaboration Skills&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Thinking Skills&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Creative Skills (6 THT)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Time Management Skills&lt;br /&gt;   4.1. Meeting Management Skills&lt;br /&gt;   4.2. Write Everything !&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Communication Skills&lt;br /&gt;   5.1. Interpersonal Skills&lt;br /&gt;   5.2. Self-Reflection / Introspection&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;b&gt; 6 soft skills for every hard-nosed professional &lt;/b&gt; &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Interpersonal skills&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Team Spirit&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Social Grace&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Business Etiquette&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Negotiation Skills&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Behavioral Traits, such as:&lt;br /&gt;  6.1. Attitude,&lt;br /&gt;  6.2. Motivation, and&lt;br /&gt;  6.3. Time management&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;b&gt; Soft skills “hard-wired” ? &lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;a. Like you learned brushing your teeth at childhood  :-(…:-).&lt;br /&gt;… yes, … how many of you Brushed your teeth today ? ALL ?? … right !!&lt;br /&gt;I hate dirty-teeth-ugly guys / gals :-(&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;b. 40-days continuous practice makes it a habit :-).&lt;br /&gt;…. Yes, remember … the Islamic ritual of 40-days … if you want to make something a habit .. PRACTICE IT RELIGIOUSLY for 40 days without any break ….&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;c. Write ! Write !! Write !!!&lt;br /&gt;.. Yes … Our STRONGEST Memory is WEAKER than the WEAKEST INK … !!! Use Hard-bound fat “ruler” Notebooks &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;d. Use Hard-bound fat “ruler” Physical Notebooks :-).&lt;br /&gt; Yes … I have researched it for about 10 years … and yes, it WORKS !!!! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;e. Hear WIIFM Radio … :-).&lt;br /&gt;... Yes, we ALL get TURNED ON when we CLEARLY see “What’s In It For Me” WIIFM .. We ALL love this ….FM Radio … so much &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://zamanmisl.googlepages.com/Soft.Skills.for.SW.Engineers.1.ppt"&gt; Download the PPT slides for more .... &lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7934713717290498063-3885139725031072160?l=zaman-on-software.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/feeds/3885139725031072160/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7934713717290498063&amp;postID=3885139725031072160' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/3885139725031072160'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/3885139725031072160'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/2008/10/soft-skills-for-software-engineers-1.html' title='Soft Skills for Software Engineers -- 1'/><author><name>Rainbow Dreamer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7934713717290498063.post-4529363729534143774</id><published>2008-10-13T19:33:00.000+06:00</published><updated>2008-10-13T21:05:31.788+06:00</updated><title type='text'>6 RM TEAM Skills</title><content type='html'>&lt;u&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Six Requirements Management TEAM Skills are following: &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. &lt;b&gt; AP: &lt;/b&gt; &lt;u&gt; Analyzing the Problem &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. &lt;b&gt; UUN: &lt;/b&gt; &lt;u&gt; Understanding User Needs &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. &lt;b&gt; DS: &lt;/b&gt; &lt;u&gt; Defining the System &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. &lt;b&gt; MS: &lt;/b&gt; &lt;u&gt; Managing Scope &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. &lt;b&gt; RSD: &lt;/b&gt; &lt;u&gt; Refining the System Definition &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. &lt;b&gt; BRS: &lt;/b&gt; &lt;u&gt; Building the Right System &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Five (5) Steps in Problem Analysis are following: &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;1. Gain Agreement on the Problem Definition &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;2. Understand the root causes - the problem behind the problem &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;3. Identify the Stakeholders &amp; Users &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;4. Define the Solution System Boundary &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;5. Identify the constraints to be imposed on the solution &lt;/u&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7934713717290498063-4529363729534143774?l=zaman-on-software.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/feeds/4529363729534143774/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7934713717290498063&amp;postID=4529363729534143774' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/4529363729534143774'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/4529363729534143774'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/2008/10/6-rm-team-skills.html' title='6 RM TEAM Skills'/><author><name>Rainbow Dreamer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7934713717290498063.post-7666944289613728520</id><published>2008-10-13T18:56:00.000+06:00</published><updated>2008-10-13T19:30:26.024+06:00</updated><title type='text'>Software is a TEAM Sport</title><content type='html'>Yes, Software is a TEAM Sport !&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, what is NOT a "Team effort" now-a-days ? Thinking, Dreaming, Writing, Blogging are not TEAM-works ;-)...But &lt;b&gt; TEAM &lt;/b&gt; can play a great role in these "lone-player games" !&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So possibly anything useful in these crazy constantly changing days needs to be a TEAM-work ! And what is the essence of a TEAM ?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt; T: &lt;/b&gt; &lt;u&gt; Together &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt; E: &lt;/b&gt; &lt;u&gt; Everyone &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt; A: &lt;/b&gt; &lt;u&gt; Achieves &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt; M: &lt;/b&gt; &lt;u&gt; More &lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt; Yes, In a TEAM, Togther Every Single Person Achieves more than what s/he could do alone. &lt;/u&gt; That is the bottom-line of any TEAM-spirit ! If any person feels his value or ROI (Return On Investment) gets hurt or lowered after joining a TEAM, s/he immediately withdraws himself (or herself) mentally from the TEAM ! Bcz, all our popular FM Radio Channel is WIIFM (&lt;u&gt;What's In It For Me&lt;/u&gt;) :-). And without the hot WIIFM music, we soon turn cold :-(.. Any TEAM hardly enjoys a "cold-body" without a "warm-heart" ;-)...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The old heroic-Herculean days in Software are gone ! Yes, SUN's Chief Scientist Bill Joy wrote the first VI editor in one night ! And that was a great heroic effort ! But surely it was Great TEAM-work which made the later VI editor versions ! And also the evolution of Open Source TEAMs / Communities contributing to Great Software Products like Linux, TomCat, JBoss, and so on ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In almost all useful software products, the combined Thought-Works of all the Developers, Marketers, Testers, Users, Customers, and all related Stakeholders play the pivotal role. And they MUST work as a TEAM ! And only those software products really excel, in which all these TEAMs took those as Great TEAM Sports !!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, I call a Software (a really good one) a Great TEAM Sport !&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7934713717290498063-7666944289613728520?l=zaman-on-software.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/feeds/7666944289613728520/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7934713717290498063&amp;postID=7666944289613728520' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/7666944289613728520'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/7666944289613728520'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/2008/10/software-is-team-sport.html' title='Software is a TEAM Sport'/><author><name>Rainbow Dreamer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7934713717290498063.post-5719837267036951910</id><published>2008-10-13T17:00:00.000+06:00</published><updated>2008-10-13T18:53:32.000+06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Software'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Thought Product'/><title type='text'>Software is a Thought Product</title><content type='html'>Yes, Software is a &lt;b&gt; Thought Product &lt;/b&gt; !&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then what is NOT a Thought Product ? Can you name one ? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt; NO &lt;/b&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Everything that we can create, MUST exist in our &lt;b&gt; Thinking Space &lt;/b&gt; first, then ONLY we create that, even centuries later ;-) ... Look at Leonardo Da Vinci's Great Thoughts and Imaginations !!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet, I call &lt;b&gt; Software &lt;/b&gt; a Thought Product emphatically and want to &lt;b&gt; characterise &lt;/b&gt; IT as more of a &lt;b&gt; Thought Product &lt;/b&gt; than any other human artifacts ! Essentially what happens so frequently in most software development projects and its associated digital space that any software is greatly shaped and reshaped, (... re-shaped, again .. and again..)  by the Mutual Thoughts (and lack-of-thoughts ;-) of the Developers, Users, Customers, and Stakeholders ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So I call it a &lt;b&gt; Thought Product &lt;/b&gt; !&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7934713717290498063-5719837267036951910?l=zaman-on-software.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/feeds/5719837267036951910/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=7934713717290498063&amp;postID=5719837267036951910' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/5719837267036951910'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7934713717290498063/posts/default/5719837267036951910'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://zaman-on-software.blogspot.com/2008/10/software-is-thought-product.html' title='Software is a Thought Product'/><author><name>Rainbow Dreamer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
